Grief Such a Terrible, but Necessary Part of Life

Grief Such a Terrible, but Necessary Part of Life

There are many ways, and reasons a person grieves. One would experience grief because their lives did not turn out the way they expected it to, a loved one dies, or a person becomes disabled. No matter the reason though, grief hurts and can be confusing too.

One minute one can be living life, everything going along as usual then bam it hits you. A smell, a color, an image, something brings you back to that loss. Uncontrollable feelings, anger, hurt, loneliness, all flood you at one time. Thing is life goes on, but how could it? The world needs to stop, you feel you lost something and why doesn’t the world grieve with me?

woman standing in a field of grass looking at a small cross


That is where my family is as we come to grips with my father in law died. I am trying to be that strong listening ear as I cannot do much else to help. Our world has changed and we are just trying to figure out how to live this new life God has given us. Until we figure this new life out I may not be as available online as I have in the past. Right now we need to circle our wagons and find that new way to live.

I ask I pray that you who read this will join me in prayer for my husband’s stepdad, my second father in law. He goes in for some exploratory surgery this week. Similar to what my husband’s biological dad was going to be dealing with. I do not know what it would be like if anything happened to him. Not now Lord, not right now! But Lord as Jesus said not my will but yours be done.


I found much comfort from this article by Greensuzy. 

If you are experiencing a loss I pray that you find some comfort from it too.

Outside sources

Grief: Physical Symptoms, Effects on Body, Duration of Process
Nov 23, 2018 When you suffer a loss, the emotions can be overwhelming. WebMD explains the common responses to grief and offers ways to cope.

50 Powerful Quotes About Losing a Loved One and Coping (2019)
Losing a loved one is one of the most painful experiences. To help you cope, here are some power quotes about losing a loved one.

Grief: Coping with the loss of your loved one
Coping with the loss of a close friend or family member may be one of the … Talk about the death of your loved one with friends and colleagues in order to …

When a Loved One Goes Home to Jesus | Desiring God
Jan 3, 2017 Sooner or later we will all have to face the death of a loved one. Christians meet this reality more than most because we belong to a bigger …

Moving Forward: Dealing With Grief | Focus on the Family
Grieving the death of a loved one is an individual process. Some caregivers … 21 :4-5 NKJV). Therefore, we mourn for ourselves, not for our Christian loved ones.

How do I find comfort and peace when I have lost a loved one to death
… to death? What is the key to accepting the fact that a loved one is gone? … In the Book of John (11:1-44), we learn that Jesus lost a loved one named Lazarus. … should a Christian give someone who is hurting after the death of a loved one?

How Should Christians Approach the Death of a Loved One …
When a loved one dies, it can be hard to figure out what the next steps are. God is … As Christians, we can find hope in God and use Him as a source of comfort.

What sort of condolences should a Christian give someone who is …
There are two approaches a Christian can take to comfort those who have lost a loved one. If we know the deceased was a follower of Christ, then there are …

What Does the Bible Say About Losing A Loved One?
He will wipe away every tear from their eyes, and death shall be no more, neither shall there be mourning, nor crying, nor pain anymore, for the former things …

How To Grieve Like a Christian – Tim Challies
Sep 10, 2017 There is a distinctly Christian way to grieve. … When dealing with the loss of a fellow believer, it is a privilege to grieve in a distinctly Christian … who are asleep, that you may not grieve as others do who have no hope” (1 Thessalonians 4:13). … While our loved ones have left us, they have not ceased to be.


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